Flower plus - in a different mood, women should learn to send flowers to themselves

Sending flowers to yourself is actually communicating with yourself, because sending flowers is a language

 
There are many flower friends who like to send flowers to themselves
Huajia Xiaobian's best friend is like this
Specifically, she ordered a service of 99 yuan per month, and she received a bunch of flowers every week
She said that after every Sunday, the whole person should be very decadent
She has no passion to go to work every Monday
Therefore, in order to adjust her state of mind, she ordered this kind of flower service by herself
At the moment of receiving the flowers, the whole person feels very good
Such a week's work will be very pleasant
Moreover, she feels that such services are not expensive and well worth it

Boys can smoke, and women can give themselves flowers
At first, I felt a little funny when I heard this saying
I didn't feel it was necessary to buy flowers for myself
Even if I had to buy them, I would just buy them once or twice
I felt it was a bit of a waste of money to buy them every week
Some people say she is a petty bourgeoisie mentality, while others say she is pretending to be X
But after careful thinking, I feel there is another mystery
First of all, the cost is really not high
99 yuan a month is more than 20 yuan a week, which is equal to a man's money for a pack of cigarettes
Moreover, smoking is harmful to health, and sending flowers is pleasant and nourishing
Therefore, sending flowers is more cost-effective compared with the two

 
Sending flowers is a language
Sending flowers is a kind of language
Many emotions can be expressed by sending flowers
Different flowers mean different meanings
Different people send different flowers
There is a lot of knowledge here
And sometimes sending flowers is more accurate and reasonable than our language expression, especially in expressing that vague feeling
Therefore, the language of sending flowers is very important
It is a kind of filling outside our language
Maybe that's how flower language comes from
There are many examples in these aspects, such as sending roses on Tanabata day, expressing a kind of love, and sending carnations on Mother's day to express a kind of gratitude
All these are more penetrating than the sentence I love you, because this is the language of flowers

 
Sending flowers to yourself is to communicate with yourself
Generally, one person sends flowers to another person to express his attention or admiration, admiration and other emotions, so as to achieve the purpose of some kind of communication; So sending flowers to yourself is actually a communication between yourself and yourself and a dialogue with yourself
Freud said that everyone has three selves, ID, ego and superego
How can these three selves communicate? By sending flowers to yourself, you can convey and express any meaning between ID and superego, so that ego, ID and superego can coexist harmoniously

Sending flowers to yourself is a kind of thinking
1) Choosing to send flowers to yourself is to choose a positive attitude and life
People will encounter many difficulties in their life
In the face of difficulties, some people will choose to be timid and escape, while others choose to face them positively, and sending flowers is a positive performance
For example, the protagonist in the story chooses to send flowers to himself in order to adjust his state of mind and improve the work efficiency of a week
Therefore, he can achieve the communication of self, ID and superego, easily solve his emotional problems, and then improve the efficiency of work and life

 
 
2) Choosing to send flowers to yourself is to choose a confident life
In daily life, we believe that self-confidence comes from the outside world
For example, a compliment from others and a look of admiration will make us happy and increase our self-confidence; However, a sentence of accusation or contempt from others can sometimes hurt yourself
In fact, the real self-confidence comes from the heart
It is your affirmation of yourself
Send yourself a bunch of flowers and examine yourself through yourself to achieve the purpose of self communication and self reflection, so as to make yourself stronger and better

 
From today on, send yourself flowers and change your life
In daily life, we have few opportunities to send flowers, but we can't deny the role of flowers because of the lack, because giving up flowers is actually giving up a language and losing the benefits we can get from sending flowers

From today on, please make a brave choice, act immediately, learn to send flowers to others and yourself at the same time, and feel the powerful energy and incredible charm of this kind of flower language
Flower plus flowers, one flower a week, feel a different life